Although it is not unusual for teenagers to experiment with alcohol and drugs, this does not mean it should be tolerated. Your child should be taught a healthy respect for themselves and, therefore, a sensible approach to drinking and trying drugs. Most teens who do experiment do not go on to develop substance problems, but some do and when they do, they need their family’s help.
Is my teen at risk?
In short, yes. Every single teen is at risk of teenage drug and alcohol abuse. Drugs are more than just marijuana, cocaine and ecstasy: Your prescription medicine, cough syrup and aerosols can all be abused and cause significant damage to your teen. Some teens are at a heightened level of risk for developing drug and alcohol dependency. For instance, teens who are generally more removed and depressed those with a genetic predisposition to addiction, those who do not fit in and those who have fallen in with a bad crowd are all more likely to develop unhealthy relationships with alcohol and drugs.
What should I do?
You cannot watch over your teen 24 hours a day so you do need to check in on them daily. It might be difficult but unless you talk to your teenage son or daughter you cannot start an open discourse with them about their life. Do not wait for them to come to you because they probably will not.
One important thing parents can do is to become familiar with the types and methods of drug taking that is popular among teens. Also, make sure you are aware of the signs of drug taking (mood swings, heightened secrecy and unexplained money spending, for instance).
If you suspect your child is taking drugs or abusing alcohol, you must talk to your teenager. By avoiding the issue, you are only going to make their problems worse. When you talk to them, you must not let their anger, excuses or avoidance control the conversation. Be calm, be in control and be loving. Do not be accusatory or lose your temper. Tell your teenager that more than anything else, they need to know that you love them but you will not tolerate drug use and alcohol abuse. Take control of the situation and get your teen on the path to recovery finding local, professional help.
